Dear Elsa
Sjunneson-Henry: My Voice Will Be Heard
By
Amayrani Sanchez
Even
as a child, I loved stories that had a young female protagonist who was finding
her way through life. As of today, I still find that most stories that really
impact me are the ones that have pieces that are real and can be related back
to my life. I want stories that are real and authentic that make me feel as
though I am a part of a community of people, something bigger than myself.
However, when people begin using a derogatory term like “Mary Sue’s” then those
same people are not just silencing the author’s voice but also depriving the
readers that are finding their voice in the stories as well.
Stories
that are real and give voices to marginalized groups of people who are not
being heard in the world now. Often people will overlook the ones who are
trying to speak out and bring attention to issues that are not being discussed
but are in dire need to be deliberated. Sharing stories is a way to amplify and
ensure that the world will listen and hear what needs to be said, which is what
empowers us all, especially when we feel voiceless. However, when someone shames
or belittles a story because it sounds like a “Mary Sue”, these people are
stripping both the authors and readers of their voices.
I
want more than just the stereotypical story; I want stories that I can connect
with. Stories that impact me the most are the ones that I can connect and
relate with. My form of escape has always been in stories and books, where I
can go to another world or place to explore and get a new perspective on my
life. I learn from the actions and mistakes of others before me in order to be
successful, which is what stories give: life lessons. Each story I read shows
or teaches me something different either about myself or the world around me.
So when someone says that a story is a “Mary Sue” then that person is taking
away a potential life lesson and demeaning the author and the readers,
especially the ones who find their voice in the story. This invalidating term
is a form of silencing because it quiets the voices that are fighting to be
heard.
The
word “Mary Sue’s” should be eliminated from vocabulary because in today’s
world, diversity is needed and wanted especially from the readers. When I am searching
for my next best read, I look for something different, new and diverse that I
feel I could make a connection with, especially when the story has characters
that remind me of me. Some of the best books that I read and loved were ones
when the main character was a Latina or Hispanic girl because the character is
like me. As an avid reader, I look for characters that embodies who I am
because when I read about the character and their story, it is like I am
watching myself in action instead of this fictional person. In the recent years
of the book industry, more books have been published about Latin American
people, which makes me feel empowered because I feel as though my voice and my
people’s voices are finally being heard. I feel encouraged and proud when I
hear another person’s story because it inspires and reminds me that if this
person can do it then I can too.
As
a reader, I want more than just a fictional story. I want something more real
and authentic, stories that empower me. Stories that make me feel as though I am
a part of a community of people who feel the same way as I do. A community that
reminds me that I am not alone. So I think it is about time that we stop
calling things as “Mary Sue’s.” It’s time to start calling stories as they are:
unheard voices. I refuse to be ignored and the world will hear my voice loud
and clear.
Nani,
ReplyDeleteIt's always been the privilege of those with a majority voice to determine who is an outsider and label them as such. That's where a lot of the insider lingo of genre fiction comes from, after all. "Brenda Starr" dialogue isn't just a dig at dialogue that comes unattached to a clear setting or character, but a dig at a soap-style comic strip that ran for decades, with (naturally) women in central roles and women as its core readership. "Mary Sue" is an easy label to toss around when you really mean "the wrong kind of woman" -- but point out the Batman is the ultimate "Mary Sue" and suddenly the room gets frosty. It will take a whole generation of pushback to move the needle on these labels.
Best,
TT