Dear
Elsa Sjunneson-Henry: Mary Sue? Not you!
By
Briella Henderson
The term “Mary Sue”
can be interpreted in two ways: one as a character, usually female in a book
that can do no wrong, usually has a tragic backstory, is lovable, or to whom
everything comes easily. The second interpretation is that a “Mary Sue” is an
author inserting themselves into their works. The latter, used as an insult,
should be rejected because it gives an easy out to haters; two words with their
own connotation that can tear down an already marginalized author until they
believe that their voice is worthless. To welcome diverse authors, someone must
revoke the name “Mary Sue” (definition 2) from the repertoire of the haters,
and everyone else, so that they are forced to choose more hateful words to tear
down said authors that they might be more likely to rethink.
On one hand,
classifying an irrationally perfect character like Katniss Everdeen from the
Hunger Games as a “Mary Sue”, as done by Reddit user Nadarhem, has
its own uses. Many like to call out characters for their impenetrable and
inexplicable perfection. If the term were to be migrated to this definition
over time, or if it were verified by the one and only Merriam Webster Dictionary,
then the phrase might still have viability. On the other hand, the harm of
using “Mary Sue” against authors like you outweighs the use of it as literary
classification. Thus far, it has not been officially defined and the phrase “Mary
Sue,” and all its made-up connotations, should continue to be used no longer.
In a time in
publishing when we are trying to listen to more diverse voices, it shouldn’t be
a problem that a unique individual such as yourself writes herself into a story
every now and then because you are very much a part of the “diverse voices”
that the writing community desperately needs more of. The term “Mary Sue”
should be discarded because authors who are part of ‘already marginalized
communities’ are seldom heard from. Characters that these authors model after
themselves, too, have not been heard from! The only reason that I can thing
other people would chastise these authors for writing themselves into their own
fiction is jealousy. Authors (men) who have dominated literature for far too
long are intimidated by the capabilities of authors whose voices they have been
suppressing for centuries. This fear and jealousy comes from the fact
marginalized authors can write from their experiences, which are more unique
and simultaneously more desirable to readers who crave fiction written by those
who, historically, haven’t gotten their fair chance to speak. One of the
historically oppressed groups makes up half the world is women. You rarely hear
the male version of the term, “Gary Stu,” used to tear authors down, yet “Mary
Sue” is just another tool to degrade the work of female authors like yourself.
I suppose my
recommendation is that “Mary Sue” be outlawed. If you are reading this, delete
it from your vocabulary. Not only is it used to discredit already marginalized
authors like those with disabilities or those who are female, but it is an easy
out for haters to use. If we force them to use bigger words in their attempts
to hurt us… maybe their tiny hater brains will explode and the problem will
solve itself!
Briella,
ReplyDeleteI appreciate the optimism in the call to delete "Mary Sue" from fandom vocabulary in the effort to force people to consider the other, hateful things they're really intending to say with that term, and perhaps choose not to. But if there's anything recent social and political history seems to be teaching us, it's that given the chance to choose between a harsh statement and a cruel statement, people aren't as repulsed by cruelty as they should be. That said, calling "Mary Sue"-flingers out for the sexism inherent in the term is well worth the effort, at least in my opinion. We can only hope that persistence and the insistence on making spaces where people can tell their stories will make the right kind of difference.
Best,
TT